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Open Letter to You

posted 12.15.05 by decipher in Life (4 comments)

I know what happened last night, and you can't deny it. I will no longer let you ever be a part of my life or my dogs life. They are no longer ours, you are gone and will never be back, they are mine now. It's amazing how your true colors have really shown recently, and how well you were able to hide them from me in the past. I now know the type of person that you are, and I don't want you in my life, ever again. You say you want to find yourself, well you are going to find out that right now you are a sad excuse for a human being.

You can add me and the dogs to the ever growing list of people who you have screwed over in your life and no longer your friends. Through this situation you have found comfort in someone but in the process destroyed many relationships with people who once considered them your friends. Now not just I, but we all see the type of person you are and have no desire to be your friend any longer. I guess this is goodbye, but it's time for me to pick up the pieces of my life that you so nicely left behind for me to do.

Enjoy whatever it is that you want to find out about yourself.

Goodbye.

edit: Her response to this was to put something in her profile.

I am such a happy person now, it's just unbelievable. You no longer have any control over me and you can threaten all you want, my happiness is way more important than anything you can dish out. Have a great life!!!

Answer this Katie, if you're so happy with your life why are you reading this? You shouldn't care about what I say or do with my life. I am not threatening you in any way, I am just telling you how it is. The only reason I ever had control over you was because you let me. You were weak, maybe you aren't now, but it's hard to believe that after 7.5 years you could hurt me in the ways you did. You are a horrible person for how you handled this whole situation and you will get what you deserve in the end.

Comments . . .

[1] On Dec-15-2005 at 10:02 PM EST, Anonymous posted:
I am not denying anything and I was never planning on speaking to you ever again. A lot of people I know think you are a shitty person. You can say and think whatever you want about me, but my happiness is WAY more important than what you think about me. I love the dogs but I let them go last sunday. I hope you and Britney become the best of friends. I am really, really happy and you can't do anything about it.... have a great life.

[2] On Dec-15-2005 at 10:20 PM EST, decipher posted:
I guess you may never see that you handled this who breakup with absolutely no class whatsoever. I am not a shitty person I didn't go behind your back and then lie directly to your face, like you did. I'm glad your happiness is important to you, it should be. As mine is to me.

It's funny how you say you let them go last weekend because you wanted to be with them here this weekend if I went out of town, how you change your feelings so quickly. It's good to know that you screwing over people who once thought you were a good friend of yours has made you feel so much better about yourself. Congratulations.

Forgot to say as well, lots of my friends think you are shitty as well, only thing different is they actually knew you. All the people that are tell you that I am, don't really know me.

[3] On Dec-15-2005 at 10:27 PM EST, Anonymous posted:
Ross you have no idea what the hell you are talking about. After sunday and the stuff you said to me with my parents sitting in the other room I knew it was goodbye. It took everything in my dad to be nice to you after the way you treated me. I don't want to get lectures from anyone anymore b/c its none of their damn business what I do. Have fun in Columbus, if you ever make it there.

[4] On Dec-15-2005 at 10:33 PM EST, decipher posted:
I only gave you advice, nothing more. If you choose not to follow it then that's your choice. I don't really recall saying anything else bad when your parents were there, and I know they know I didn't treat you as badly as they are letting you believe. You completely screwed me over in this whole process and bold faced lied saying you wanted to be alone and find yourself, yet you are already spending the night at someones house. I will make it where I want to go because the big difference between you and me is when I decide to do something I actually follow through.